Stepping Stones in The Journey of Life
Dr. Martha’s Monday Morning Motivation
Monday, June 6th, 2011
This past weekend I had the honor of standing in support of my brother, Jon Nessler, as he married the love of his life, Morgan Finley. I have had the honor of standing up in many weddings, nineteen to be exact. It is unexplainable to stand with a couple as they pledge their love and devotion to one another and begin their journey as one.
As Morgan walked down the aisle toward my brother, his face in awe as his bride approached him, my eyes filled with tears of joy. As the oldest sibling I have always wanted the best for each of my brothers and my sister and the look on his face let me know that he had found that in Morgan. I knew the day he met her something was different about her and as their solo journey continued, I knew they would share a joined journey in this life together.
Life really is all about the journey and not the destination; to me destination is too final. Personally, I don’t know that there is a set destination but rather stepping stones at which we stop along the way. Each stepping stone is an opportunity to reflect.
As we travel the journey of life we constantly evolve. We grow from our experiences, the places we go, and the people we meet. At a stepping-stone it is a great time to evaluate all that you have picked up along the way and show gratitude for the person you have become. It is also a great place to drop of excess baggage that is slowing your pace on your journey. Excess baggage is anything that is holding us back from being the best versions of ourselves. Stepping-stones are necessary and pivotal. They are chapters in our book of life.
I am in the process of writing a book about my life, so I have been taking a detailed walk down memory lane. I am so grateful for the journey that has brought me to the stepping-stone I stand today and I am eager to continue to the next. Looking back over my life I can’t say that I regret any of my stops along the way. I am grateful for each one, as it has contributed to the person I have become and am excited to watch myself grow as I reach the next.
I realized I haven’t always done the necessary house keeping at every stepping stone so at the one I am currently at I chose to assess the stepping stones that brought me to the stone I stand today. House keeping to me is the same as tying up loose ends as to close one door before opening the next. What an awesome process, while it was some what exhausting it was exilirating to know that I would be moving forward FREE.
Looking back over my journey has reminded me that we are all constantly evolving into better versions of the person we were just the minute before. I have come so far in my thirty-one years and I can’t wait to see who I am in my next 31. I think we all need to take a little time to reflect on where we have been, I think knowing where you have been gives you a better sense of where you want to go.
For Jon and Morgan this was a HUGE stepping-stone. At this stone they joined together in each other’s journey, their two journeys became one. Their next stepping stone will allow them to see how far they have come and give them a refreshed excitement of where they are headed. The same holds true for all of us. Take some time to reflect and give thanks, then sit back and enjoy the journey.
Dr. Martha Nessler
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